Judgements are a pervasive part of society: not attractive enough, too fat, to thin, handicapped, scars, mentally ill, etc. These things can wreak havoc on the psyche if taken to heart; I know this well. As a female with blonde hair, having had anorexia, and now a disability; trust that I have been privy to such things. Those who would condemn others are obviously not secure with themselves or they would find no need to insult and belittle others. A litmus test before speaking: is it loving, kind, and necessary? If the answer is no, best to not exude that energy. Conversely, if others sit in judgment of you, realize it is their baggage, not yours. Again people that would judge are wholly insecure, for they would otherwise find no need to point out other’s flaws and imperfections. There are cruel people everywhere; misery loves company; these words do not hold weight without explicit permission.