Change is often frightening , but what is scarier is staying stuck; in chaos, pessimism, or negative situations. Often times we feel stuck and as though absolutely nothing will alleviate our pain. I can attest that when we face fear and change despite, often (not always), the pain dissipates. This is not to say awful things do occur; life is life. While I DO tout gratitude and optimism; each person’s pain is completely valid and NOT trivial. Often,small things ( instances that some people might take in stride) have a great effect on people .
As human beings we face fear; even the bravest among us deal with this. In society today, it is common to put on a front of having no fear; again will say that the bravest men and women have fear, but do not let it stop them. When in a negative situation; one has a choice as to whether on to stay in it’s grip or face (sometimes debilating) fear and move forward.
If you’re seriously struggling with something, please seek help. I am simply peer ; imparting knowledge. I am NOT a professional .